兩性的友情一樣穩固，只是表達這種穩固友誼的方式不同：女性多半 以身體和口語上的情感來表達彼此的親密；男性則透過彼此的陪 伴行動或共同活動來表達彼此的親密。在眾多朋友中，個體可能會與幾個特定對象發展出高度親密關係的友誼，會向對方說出個人資訊、分享私密的想法和情緒、尋求支持和安慰。目前已有文獻探討親密和依附兩者的相似性 ...學習重點 · 1. strengthen 加強；增強；鞏固 · 2. relationship 關係，關聯；人際關係 · 3. expiration 到期，期滿；結束.有沒有問過自己，到底一生人中，你有多少個朋友？ Facebook 的503 個「朋友」會是你的答案？還是Instagram 上的477 位followers？還是結婚時，邀請的那30 圍 ...誰是我的朋友？Z世代青少兒之社交關係初探. 論文名稱(外文):, Who is my friend? --The social relationship of Generation Z. 指導教授: 吳筱玫. 學位類別: 碩士. 校院 ...Friends with benefits (FWB) 顧名思義指那些「互惠互利的朋友」，是一種帶有性關係的友誼。他們比起普通朋友多點激情，亦比浪漫愛情少一點責任，因而吸引了不少人願意 ...This study explored how people utilize different social networking sites to maintain relationships with close friends. An online survey was administered to ...根據人類學家羅賓·鄧巴的說法，根據你的社交程度，你一次能與之保持有意義關係的最高人數在100 到200 人之間。 And many of us have a lot more social ...網際網路的出現影響了友誼網絡。有三種不同論點：取代論主張. 網路上認識的新朋友，會取代真實世界的既存朋友；擴大論主張網路. 上認識的新朋友，會使人們有更多朋友；強化 ...本文利用「資訊網絡為基底」(Web-Based System)的社會網絡分析方法，來. 築構如圖2 和3 所呈現的，各樣本班級內「同儕團體」，以及每一個學生在班內. 的相對友誼關係，並透過 ...This is " You Are Here ," a new series about the science behind everyday life . Friendships are a uniquely flexible kind of relationship because unlike with our family members or romantic partners , there are no clear expectations or obligations . So , social media can both strengthen the friendships you care about , and keep some relationships alive past their natural expiration date . The more platforms friends use to communicate , in addition to seeing each other in person , the stronger their relationship . But if you just focus on your closest friends , it 's also a tool that can help you deepen your relationships . Social media allows you to maintain more friendships , but more shallowly . 所以，如果你在別人的 Facebook 塗鴉牆上留言，或者在他們的 Instagram 上留言，你就是在維護這段友誼。 Technology offers us a way to extend the lifespan of these friendships , even long - distance ones , with minimal effort . Which suggests that people who move a lot may see their friendships as more disposable . You can see what your childhood camp friend thinks about politics , you can get a " Happy Birthday " message from your old Little League teammate . You remember them fondly , but they remain firmly in the past . 然後，紀念性的朋友是在你生命較早期時對你很重要的人，但你並不指望能見到或聽到他們的消息，也許你們永遠不會再見面。 And then , a commemorative friend is someone who was important to you at an earlier time in your life , but you don 't really expect to see or hear from them , maybe ever again . 如果你經常和這個人保持聯繫、覺得自己可以向他們尋求情感上的支持，或是幾乎知道他們所有的生活近況，那麼這段友誼就是活躍的。 A friendship is active if you ' re regularly in touch with this person , if you feel you can call on them for emotional support , and if you pretty much know what 's going on with their lives . Friendship researcher William Rawlins divides friendships into three categories : active , dormant , and commemorative . And many of us have a lot more social media connections than that . 根據人類學家羅賓·鄧巴的說法，根據你的社交程度，你一次能與之保持有意義關係的最高人數在 100 到 200 人之間。 But is social media strengthening friendships or making them shallower ? No matter where in the world our friends are , or how long it 's been since we ' ve seen them , as long as they stay on social media , we never have to lose touch . 不管我們的朋友在世界哪個角落、不管我們有多久沒見到他們，只要他們還在社交媒體上，我們就永遠不會失去聯繫。 According to anthropologist Robin Dunbar , the highest number of people you can maintain a meaningful relationship with at one time ranges from 100 to 200, depending on how social you are . A dormant friend is someone you have history with , but whom you haven 't spoken to in a while . But if you were in the same town as them , you 'd definitely hit them up , and it wouldn 't be weird . Facebook is like a trophy case for these commemorative friendships . As you grow older , more and more of your active friendships will become dormant or commemorative . That 's because friendships naturally fade as people grow up . According to the American Time Use Survey , young people aged 15 to 19 spend the most time socializing per day while older adults have less time to spend with their friends . 根據美國時間使用調查，15 至 19 歲的年輕人每天花在社交上的時間最多，而老年人花在朋友身上的時間較少。 One study found that the more people moved , the more willing they were to get rid of objects , but the more willing they were to get rid of their objects , they also reported being more willing to cut social ties too . But a friendship isn 't the same as that crumpled soccer team sweatshirt that you finally threw out after your third move . But some of those friendships aren 't really living . According to friendship researcher Emily Langan , any contact at all is the bare minimum of what it takes to keep a friendship alive . So , if you write on someone 's Facebook wall , or comment on their Instagram , you ' re doing a form of friendship maintenance . This makes it easy to drop them when things get busy , but it also means that a period of dormancy doesn 't mean that the friendship is over . In a series of interviews Rawlins did with middle - aged Americans , he found that many still considered themselves to be friends with people they hadn 't been in touch with in a long time . But they felt like they could pick right back up where they left off . So , maybe that 's the biggest gift the Internet gives us . A place to find our friends when we ' re ready to pick up where we left off . The effort has to come from you , and liking a status won 't be enough , but when you ' re ready , your friends are there , in your pocket , waiting for you to reconnect . 但還是得靠自己努力，光是按讚臉書動態是不夠的，當你準備好時，你的朋友就在那裡，近在咫尺，等著你重新聯繫。 Let us know what topics you 'd like us to explore in the comments .為了持續優化網站功能與使用者體驗，本網站將Cookies分析技術用於網站營運、分析和個人化服務之目的。 This study explored how people utilize different social networking sites to maintain relationships with close friends. An online survey was administered to explore the user behavior, purposes of using two sites and if relationship maintenance strategies differ between Facebook and LINE. The survey results showed that user behavior, purposes of using two sites and relationship maintenance strategies vary between the Facebook and LINE. In general, more relational maintenance strategies were used on LINE. The main purpose of using LINE is maintaining friendships. The frequently used functions include sending stickers and messages on LINE. On Facebook, more surveillance strategies were used and the purposes of using Facebook are sharing news with friends and tracking people. The frequently used functions include liking and using Facebook wall. That is to say, media characteristics affect user behavior, purposes of using social networking sites and relationship maintenance strategies. In addition, the way of using social networking sites differ by friendship types. For instance, surveillance was not used in close friendship. Between Facebook and LINE, there were sex differences in user behavior and in purposes of using the social networking sites. Though women used more strategies to maintain relationships than men did on LINE, there were no sex differences in relationship maintenance strategies on Facebook. Future studies can explore if user behavior and relationship maintenance strategies vary by friendship types and the gender of friends.Hendrick, C. & Hendrick, S. (1986). A theory and method of love. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50 , 392-402. 「情慾愛」 ：是較浪漫的戀愛態度，他們不但渴望伴侶能滿足他們的性慾，亦對關係上的種種相處帶有強烈的感情。這些人會希望 FWBR 能轉變成真實的戀愛，所以若然最後這段關係轉變失敗，他們會選擇放棄整段友誼。 心理學 家 John Alan Lee（1977) 提出了 愛情色輪模型（The Color Wheel Model of Love ），指出愛情和顏色是相似的，除了紅、藍、黃的三原色外，不同顏色的互配可以演變出更多的顏色，亦相似於不同的戀愛模式。其後，Clyde Hendrick 及 Susan Hendrick（1986） 根據此理論緝寫成一套 Love attitudes scale 來研究人們的戀愛態度。其中愛情的「三原型」分別是 友伴愛（Storge ）、 情慾愛（Eros） 和 遊戲愛（Ludus ）。 學者 Hughes et al. (2005）發現了人們選擇開展這段「友誼」的五大動機，當中包括： 迴避責任（avoidance ）、 性 （sex） 、 關係簡化（relationship simplicity ）、 情感連繫（emotional connection ）及 渴望 FWBR（wanted FWBR ）。 首先，我們先來了解一下這種關係的特徵。學者 Mongeau et al. 在 2013 年透過分析 FWB 伴侶的社交生活、互動及雙方期望等總括了七個 Friends with benefits Relationship（FWBR）的種類： 相信 Friends with benefits（FWB）對很多人來說已不是一個新詞語，而這種關係亦被視為其中一種休閒約會（Casual relationship）。FWB 顧名思義指那些「互惠互利的朋友」，是一 種帶有性關係的友誼。他們比起普通朋友多點激情，亦比浪漫愛情少一點責任，因而吸引了不少人願意展開一段 FWB 的關係。但亦有人疑惑究竟這種似有似無的關係是否能維持下去的呢？的確，根據愛情三角理論，FWB 缺少了愛情其中一種重要的元素—— 承諾；若一段關係沒有了共同承擔的責任或對雙方對戀愛的承諾，這段關係便更容易無疾而終。即便如此，為何人們仍選擇開展一段 FWB 的關係呢？ 而在其後的一篇研究中，發現不論是以上那一種類型的關係，「性」是最普遍的動機，藉此證明了大部分的 FWBR 都依賴「性」來維持關係；其次就是「情感連繫」，亦指人們渴望從關係中得到一種聯繫感或與別人的親密感覺 (Stein et al., 2019)。學者們解釋，這個結果可能與人們的 內在動機（intrinsic motivation ）和 外在動機（extrinsic motivation ）有關。選擇「性」的人大多以維持性生活來達到即時滿足，屬內在動機的自賞行為。而「 情感連繫」則大多應用於「真心朋友」或有意轉變成愛情的 FWBR 中，他們渴望從對方身上得到更長遠的親密感，屬外在的額外獎賞；因此這些人更容易對 FWB 伴侶產生愛意，更容易「沉船」。由此可見，不同人的動機能反映他們較偏好那類型的 FWBR ，也會影響他們在這段關係的最終發展。 「友伴愛」 ：是較著重友好關係的戀愛態度，他們會由朋友開始循序漸進，慢慢產生情意，雙方亦較重視一起互相成長的過程。這些人較少依賴「性」的動機展開 FWBR，所以在這類型的「友誼」中，雙方較著重友誼的建立，而性關係則會在較遲的階段開始。 「遊戲愛」 ：是一種以帶有玩樂心態的戀愛態度，他們不熱衷於雙方的感情建立，不希望過度投放時間和責任，他們往往最享受這種關係帶來的快感。因他們能清楚劃分自己對「性」和「責任」的界限，所以他們不會投入太多個人感情予 FWBR 以至無法抽身，這也能解釋為何他們較容易展開並維持一段長遠和友好的 FWBR。 Hughes, Mikayla; Morrison, Kelly; Asada, Kelli Jean K. (2005). What’s love got to do with it? Exploring the impact of maintenance rules, love attitudes, and network support on friends with benefits relationships. Western Journal of Communication, 69 (1), 49–66. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10570310500034154 . Mongeau, P. A., Knight, K., Williams, J., Eden, J., & Shaw, C. (2013). Identifying and Explicating Variation among Friends with Benefits Relationships. Journal of Sex Research, 50 (1), 37–47. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22046972/ Copyright 2025 TreeholeHK Limited , all rights reserved.跟自己獨處其實也是一種學問，那種獨自存在卻不覺孤單的感覺，是人生最大的修行。然而，當你學會了這種自在自處的模式，自會變得獨立，對於朋友的依賴亦會減少，自然能夠睜開眼，挑選最適合自己的朋友。 有人說，人年紀越大，朋友就會越少，不過剩下的都是真心好友。看著原本熟悉的朋友越來越疏遠，任誰也會感到難過，但就把這當作是一場「友誼排毒」吧，把那些根本沒有拿出真心、只是把自己利益放最前、把朋友私隱當是非的那些人排走吧！只要留下那些在你傷心時會遞上紙巾，細心傾聽、在你快樂時會比你還高興、在你出事時會義無反顧地站出來伸出援手、在你困惑時能夠給予你真心建議的那些朋友，這輩子就足夠了。 「150 定律」告訴我們的，比起「我們的腦容量只能讓我們認識 150 個朋友」，更重要的或許是提醒著我們該怎樣利用這 150 個名額。假若人生真的只能有 150 個朋友，當然是認識那些能夠互相扶持，彼此幫助大家成長的朋友吧！ 明明 Facebook、Instagram、就連 Whatsapp